Episode 105 – What’s Your Money Story? Childhood Beliefs That Still Shape Your Wallet

We all carry financial baggage—and most of it was packed before we turned ten.

In Episode 105 of Last Paycheck, Rob and Archie Hoxton explore how unconscious beliefs formed in childhood shape our adult financial habits. These “money scripts,” as defined by financial psychologist Brad Klontz, are emotional blueprints for how we think, feel, and behave around money.

Whether you’re a compulsive saver, impulsive spender, or anxious budgeter, this episode peels back the layers to help you understand why.

Money Memories That Stick

Archie shares his first financial memory: cutting grass for cash. Rob recalls matching Archie’s car savings, only to watch him game the system using gift money. These stories might seem small, but they reflect formative ideas—“Money is earned,” “Money can be leveraged,” or even “Money makes people anxious.”

Rob encourages listeners to ask themselves:
“What’s your first memory of money?”

The answer may reveal more than you think.

The Four Money Scripts

  1. Money Avoidance
    1. Belief: Money is bad or undeserved.
    2. Typical behavior: Chronic under-earning, guilt around wealth.
  2. Money Worship
    1. Belief: More money = more happiness.
    2. Typical behavior: Overspending, never feeling secure.
  3. Money Status
    1. Belief: Net worth equals self-worth.
    2. Typical behavior: Lifestyle inflation, keeping up appearances.
  4. Money Vigilance
    1. Belief: Always save, avoid risk.
    2. Typical behavior: Hoarding money, fear of spending—even when safe.

Rob and Archie stress that these scripts aren’t destiny. With awareness, reflection, and support, you can rewrite your narrative.

Why This Matters

Money scripts influence:

  • How you budget (or avoid it)
  • How you invest (or hoard cash)
  • How you talk to your spouse (or don’t)
  • How you prepare for retirement—or delay it entirely

Understanding your script doesn’t just help you manage money better. It helps you make decisions from clarity, not fear or habit.

Start With Reflection

  • What beliefs about money were modeled for you?
  • How do those show up in your life today?
  • Are they helping—or holding you back?

If your answers reveal patterns you’d like to change, you’re not alone. Rob and Archie recommend working with a financial advisor or therapist trained in financial behavior. The Financial Therapy Association (financialtherapyassociation.org) is a great resource.

Final Thought

You can’t change what you don’t acknowledge. But once you understand the money story you’ve been telling yourself—maybe since childhood—you can begin writing a new chapter.

Ever wonder why you save compulsively, overspend emotionally, or freeze when facing financial decisions?

It might trace back to beliefs formed in childhood. Download our Financial Baggage Self-Audit to uncover the money scripts that drive your decisions—and start rewriting your money story.
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Episode 104 – The Cost of Financial Clutter—and How to Fix It

Are You Financially Organized? 5 Questions That Can Change Everything

You might know how much you earn. Maybe you even know what you spend each month. But do you know where all your accounts are? When your insurance renews? Who to call if something happens to you?

In Episode 104 of The Last Paycheck, Rob and Archie Hoxton discuss what financial advisors quietly observe: that disorganization is one of the biggest (and most underdiagnosed) threats to financial health.

We’re not just talking about a messy desk. We’re talking about forgotten accounts, lapsed insurance, missed deadlines, and decision fatigue caused by scattered information.

Here are five questions to ask yourself today to start clearing the fog:

1. Do You Know Where Your Money Is Going?

Budgeting is one thing. Awareness is another.

  • Are you tracking fixed vs. discretionary spending?
  • Are there subscriptions you don’t use?
  • Does your spending reflect your values—or just habits?

Tip: Use a spending tracker (even just for 30 days) to see where your money leaks are.

2. Are Your Accounts and Documents Organized?

Many people have IRAs they’ve forgotten about, bank accounts that barely earn interest, or insurance policies they haven’t reviewed in years.

  • Can you name all your active accounts?
  • Are your beneficiaries current?
  • Do you know how your assets are titled?

Tip: Create a one-page inventory that lists every account, document, and key contact.

3. Do You Have a System for Tracking?

Your financial dashboard doesn’t have to be fancy—but it does need to exist.

  • Are you using software, spreadsheets, or a binder?
  • Can you quickly check your net worth or upcoming bills?
  • Do you track tax documents, insurance renewals, or due dates?

Tip: Start with a monthly finance date—just one hour to check progress and prep for what’s next.

4. Can Your Partner or Loved Ones Step In If Needed?

One of the most overlooked issues: financial gatekeeping.

  • If something happened to you, would your spouse or child know where to find information?
  • Is your will, power of attorney, and insurance contact list easily accessible?

Tip: Consider creating a “financial fire drill” document. It doesn’t have to be public—but it should exist.

5. Are You Making Decisions Based on Goals—or Stress?

When everything feels chaotic, people tend to make reactive decisions—sell that stock, cancel that insurance, or pull money out prematurely.

  • Are you acting from a plan, or reacting to pressure?
  • Are your financial decisions aligned with long-term goals?

Tip: Use planning tools to give structure to your decisions. You don’t have to do this alone.

Final Thought

Financial organization is more than a task—it’s a discipline. It reduces mental load, helps avoid costly mistakes, and keeps you moving toward what actually matters.

Financial clutter creates costly mistakes.

Get organized with our Financial Command Center Worksheet—a step-by-step tool to help you consolidate accounts, track documents, and prep your plan for anything.
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Certified Financial Planner Board of Standards Center for Financial Planning, Inc. owns and licenses the certification marks CFP®, CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER®, and CFP® (with plaque design) in the United States to Certified Financial Planner Board of Standards, Inc., which authorizes individuals who successfully complete the organization’s initial and ongoing certification requirements to use the certification marks.